Sundakkai Gothsu is one of those recipes my husband and I have genuinely argued about. He grew up in a household where his mother made gothsu thin and pourable, almost like a rasam with body. My version, which I learned from a neighbour in Chennai, goes thicker, with a proper ground paste that clings to the back of a spoon. We have made both, compared them side by side, and still have not fully agreed.
What I keep coming back to is the moment the sesame powder goes in right at the end — that warm, nutty smell that rises up just before you switch off the flame. That detail, small as it sounds, is what makes this gothsu feel like mine. The sundakkai brings a gentle bitterness that balances the tamarind, and together they make something that is hard to place but easy to want again.
About the Recipe
On most days, I make this when the fridge is running low and I have a small batch of sundakkai sitting in water. Every ingredient here is a South Indian kitchen staple — tamarind, shallots, dried red chillies, and a little grated coconut. Nothing needs advance preparation beyond soaking the berries. The whole thing comes together in about 35 to 40 minutes, including the grinding. I reach for this recipe specifically on pongal mornings, when I want a gothsu that is proper and flavourful without spending the whole morning at the stove.
Why you will love this recipe
The combination of tamarind water and freshly ground coconut-chilli paste is what makes this worth making regularly. The tamarind gives it sharpness and the coconut rounds it out, so the gravy has depth without being heavy. Sundakkai itself adds a slight bitterness that cuts through the richness and keeps the whole thing from becoming one-note.
The sesame powder stirred in at the very end adds a quiet nuttiness that you notice mostly as a texture shift, a slight thickening and warmth that settles the gravy beautifully. It pairs with idli and pongal in a way that no plain sambar quite replicates. Once you make it this way, with the double-grinding and the tempering added last, you will find it hard to go back to shortcuts.
Cooking Tips
The most common beginner mistake here is adding the ground paste too early, before the tamarind water has had time to reduce slightly. If you do this, the raw taste of the coconut and chilli lingers and the gravy never quite comes together. Let the tamarind water boil and reduce for at least four to five minutes before the paste goes in.
Also watch the sesame seeds closely during dry roasting — on low flame they can go from perfectly golden to burnt in under a minute. I grind them as soon as they cool so they do not clump.
Top Tips
- Soak the sundakkai in water before using — this reduces some of the bitterness and also helps it cook more evenly in the pan.
- Dry roast the sesame seeds on the lowest flame your stove allows, and do not walk away. They go from pale to overdone very quickly.
- Grind the coconut-chilli paste as fine as you can. A coarser paste will give the gothsu a grainy texture rather than a smooth, thick gravy.
- When the ground paste goes in, add just enough water to loosen it — roughly a quarter cup to start — so the gravy does not seize up or become too stiff as it cooks.
- The tempering goes in last. Adding it to freshly finished gothsu means the mustard seeds and curry leaves stay fragrant rather than getting lost in a long simmer.
- Gothsu thickens as it sits. If you are making it ahead, keep it slightly looser than you want it to be at serving time.
Serving and Storing Suggestions
Serves 3 to 4 people. Preparation and cooking time is about 35 to 40 minutes. Sundakkai Gothsu pairs best with pongal, plain idli, or dosa. Serve it hot, right after tempering.
Leftovers keep well in the refrigerator for up to two days in an airtight container. Reheat gently on a low flame with a splash of water to loosen it back to the right consistency, since the gravy thickens considerably once cold.
Similar Recipes
- Vatha Kuzhambu
- Puli Kuzhambu
- Kathirikkai Gothsu
- Milagu Kuzhambu
Nutrient Benefits
Sundakkai, also called turkey berry, has long been used in traditional South Indian cooking specifically for digestive health — the recipe itself notes it helps clear stomach infections, and that reputation holds up. The sesame seeds contribute calcium and iron, which is worth noting in a dish with no meat or dairy beyond the small amount of coconut.
Tamarind provides vitamin C, which helps with iron absorption from the sesame. For a simple everyday gravy with no special effort, that combination is genuinely useful.

Sundakkai Gothsu
Ingredients
- 1/2 cup Sundakkai (chopped and soaked in water)
- Asafoetida (a pinch)
- 1/4 cup Shallots (finely chopped)
- 1/2 tsp Mustard Seeds
- 1 Tomato (finely chopped)
- 1/2 tsp Turmeric powder
- 1 tbsp Sesame seeds
- 1 cup Tamarind Water
- Curry Leaves (few)
- Coriander Leaves (to garnish)
- Oil (as required)
- Salt to taste
Grind Together:
- 2 tbsp Coconut (grated)
- 4 Red Chillies
- 1/2 tsp Jeera
- 1 tsp Coriander Seeds
- 1 tbsp Bengal Gram Dal
Instructions
- Dry roast the sesame seeds in low flame.
- Allow it to cool and grind them.
- To the same pan, add the ingredients listed for grinding and fry well.
- Allow them to rest and grind it to fine paste.
- Take a pan and saute shallots in oil.
- Add the chopped tomato and sundakkai and fry them.
- Add the tamarind water, turmeric powder and the required salt.
- When it starts to boil, add the ground paste with enough water and cook till the gravy becomes thick.
- Add powdered sesame seeds and remove from fire.
- To another pan, add oil and fry the mustard seeds, curry leaves and when it splatter, add it to the gravy.
- Garnish with chopped coriander leaves and serve hot.
- This kothsu will kill any germs in the stomach.
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Frequently Asked Questions
My gothsu turned out very bitter. What went wrong?
Sundakkai is naturally bitter, but soaking it in water before cooking helps reduce that sharpness. If you skipped the soaking step or used very mature berries, the bitterness intensifies. Make sure to soak the chopped sundakkai for at least 15 to 20 minutes and drain before frying. A little extra tamarind water also balances it out.
Can I use desiccated coconut instead of fresh grated coconut for the paste?
Fresh grated coconut gives a much smoother paste and a cleaner flavour. Desiccated coconut tends to stay slightly grainy even after grinding, which affects the texture of the final gravy. If fresh coconut is not available, frozen grated coconut that has been thawed works reasonably well as a substitute.
The gravy became very thick and almost paste-like. How do I fix this?
This happens when the paste is added with too little water or when the gravy is cooked on too high a flame. Add warm water, a few tablespoons at a time, and stir gently over low heat until it loosens to the consistency you want. Do this before adding the sesame powder, not after.
Can I make Sundakkai Gothsu without a grinder? I only have a small blender.
A small blender works fine for both the sesame seeds and the coconut-chilli paste, as long as you grind in small batches and add a few teaspoons of water when needed to get the paste moving. The key is to grind the paste as fine as possible, so run the blender a little longer than you think is necessary.
How long can I store fresh sundakkai before using it?
Fresh sundakkai keeps in the refrigerator for about three to four days. Chop and soak it only when you are ready to cook, not ahead of time, since soaked berries sitting in water for too long can become waterlogged and lose their texture in the pan.
